How many times do you take on a project or get into something and really give
it your best?Let's face it - most people don't always put their best foot forward unless they really have to. But if you forced yourself to perform
at your best you would simply get the best in return. By being at your best you would attract and meet positive, supportive people who respect you and enjoy your
company and give you the best they have to offer. By being your best you attract the
best in every situation, you attract the best outcomes and you attract the right people.Why?Because when you are at your best you exude the right energy that draws
the best people, situations and circumstances to help you achieve greater success in all areas of your life. This means that you don't get caught up in what other people think about you - instead you focus on being the best possible person you can.Let's face it - you simply won't be able to please all of the people all of the time.So don't waste time and energy trying to please everybody - focus on being your best and
you'll attract the best.You are a unique human being - there's no one else like you -no one
How You Can Be Your BestOnly you can be you - and if you respect
who you are and you believe in who you
are then others will soon start to
respect you and believe in you. This is when
you are at your best - when you truly believe
in yourself and when you believe that you
are unique and capable of achieving your goals.If you spend too much time trying to win
over people or trying to make everybody happy - you'll only attract people who
want you to win them over and you'll attract people who demand that you
keep them happy.I know everybody wants to be liked especially by those you feel are
important to you.But if you really want to win people over and if you really want to get along better with people - then you first have to appreciate yourself for who
you are.How do you do this? How do you be your best and exude the right energy to attract the right people.Focus on what you like about yourself.
Think of all the positive qualities that you have and everyday compliment yourself for the positive qualities that you have.When you do this - you focus on your best
qualities which naturally pushes you to be your best.Then begin to believe in yourself.
Focus on your past achievements - and begin to believe that you can live the life you want. Believe that you can accomplish your goals and that you can win people over. Believe that you can succeed at anything that you do - and you
will. It's a simple process of getting the mind to focus on what you are, what you can do and on your best qualities. Once you do that - your subconscious mind
will begin to attract the people, situations and events that will support what you believe - and that's when things really star to change. That's when people will see the best in you and then you'll begin being the best that you can.
Begin believing in yourself today
The next step is to be the kind of person you want to be and attract.If you want positive, good, loving, caring people and people who respect you - then you need to display those same qualities.You will attract that which you are.If you're angry, mean, cruel, unkind and disrespectful - then those are the kind of people that you will attract.People pick up on your energy - if you exude positive, loving and caring energy you'll attract people who have the same qualities.How do you begin to change your energy and begin to be the kind of person that you want to attract into your life?Start with your thoughts.Regularly have positive, confident, caring and respectful thoughts. Have the best possible thoughts about any situation and you'll attract the best possible outcome.In the beginning this won't be easy - you'll have to change the thoughts that you have.But as you change your thoughts you begin to send a new message to your subconscious mind.You then push your subconscious mind to attract the people and situations that will help you build your confidence, respect you, encourage you and be supportive.Start being the person you want to be. Start being the kind of person you want to attract into your life. Don't waste too much time and energy on people's opinions - you don't have to be what people think of you.
Don't waste time and energy worrying about what other people think about you.Focus on being who you want to be and you'll attract the people that will help you and enjoy being with you.
Here's a little exercise that you can do:
everyday make it a point to do something really, really well. Put your best effort
into at least one task everyday.Then after a week - expand to doing two
things at your best. Keep expanding every week and before you know it you'll be at your
best all the time. And in the process
you'll attract the best all the time.At the same time you should make it a point
to go the extra mile for someone everyday.I know some of you may say: "Karim, I go the extra mile for people all the time and all I get is a kick in return."
That's not what this exercise is about.The above exercise will help you attract new
people so that you're no longer treated like a doormat.Focus on doing the right things. Make sure you do your best at least one thing everyday - then expand to two things everyday the following wee and keep expanding each week.Begin to believe in yourself and you will begin to change your energy so that you attract
the right people into your life.By being your best and by going the extra
mile for people you will begin to believe in yourself. You will get your create
positive energy and get your subconscious mind working for you. Get started today
Focus on your positive qualities.
Push yourself to do your best everyday.
Be the best person that you can.
Go the extra mile.
Believe in yourself - because you can do
anything when you put your mind to it.
# posted by YoIndian @ 10:29 PM